Attachment to the past relationship (I)

From:Voice of Longquan      Author:Voice of Longquan     Time:2016-07-19 18:47:48
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Love and hatred can be converted by just one thought, because a human’s mind is changeable. Life ahead will be quite different if you choose to let the past be past and embrace a future full of sunshine and hopes.

Q: Master, I have to give up a relationship. What should I do to remove the sad feelings from my heart? Amitabha Buddha!

A: Cut the knot with a sharp knife.


Q: Master, a person resides in my heart. I should forget the person, but it’s very difficult. What should I do?

A: Reflect on impermanence whenever you recall the past. Gradually you will realize the illusive nature of all things, and then you can put away the attachment.

Q: Master! My beloved cheated me, used me, and treated me unfairly. How can I convince myself to give up my love and hatred to him?

A: Love and hatred can be converted by just one thought, because a human’s mind is changeable. Love and hatred are caused by our own attachment. Eliminate previous bad karmas according to current conditions, and do not create any new bad karmas.


Q: Hello, Master! I was completely deceived by the person I loved. Now I feel very painful and my heart is full of hatred. I can’t forgive him or calm down myself. I can’t accept this. What should I do?

A: You can do whatever you want to gain revenge, and put yourself in pain forever. Or you may choose to lay down your hatred, end the bad relationship, and open up a future full of hopes.

Editor:Allison
Tags:attachment,relationship,love and hatred

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